In your twenties, you laid the groundwork for collaboration, cultivating your skills in relationship building and management. By your thirties, you found your voice and learned how to present yourself to the world.

As you enter your forties, your focus should shift to building a robust and stable foundation that will carry you through the rest of your career. Imagine this as designing a chair—you need to create its blueprint, select the finest materials, and assemble it with care.

Your chair needs to rest on four legs.

The first leg symbolizes you—the core of your identity.

The second leg represents your unique creativity—your individual expression.

The third leg embodies your family and interpersonal relationships—your support system.

The fourth leg signifies your connection with the Universe or a higher purpose—something greater than yourself.

Have you designed your chair yet? The blueprint reflects your level of self-awareness. Are you clear on the components necessary for your chair to come to life?

What does your chair—your career and life in your forties—look like?

Is it sturdy and stable, signifying that your career choices are aligned with your true self? Or does it appear wobbly, uneven, or crooked, indicating that one or more legs require more attention and nurturing?

Which pillar of your forties needs your focus?

Is it the first leg—your authentic self? Are you aware of your strengths and talents? Do you know which of these are your strongest and define your unique niche? Is anything or anyone obstructing your path to realizing your full potential?

Is it the second leg—your creativity? Are you able to express your authentic voice in your chosen field or organization, or are you compensating for your weaknesses? Do you have the autonomy to flourish? Have you identified your ideal audience?

Is it the third leg—your family and relationships? Are challenges in your personal life spilling over into your work, impacting your productivity and relationships? Is your home life draining your energy?

Is it the fourth leg—your relationship with the Universe? Are you in tune with your true purpose? Do you find purpose in your work? Can you contribute in a way that is aligned with your heart?

Take a closer look at your chair. In your forties, it’s essential to achieve a harmonious balance that reflects your strengths, gifts, experience, and purpose.